First, congratulations on noticing a man and taking it upon yourself to get them. Curse the stereotypes. Women can pursue men and be successful at it. The secret, however, is to make it seem like they are the ones seeking you. I am not talking about playing hard to get. That is old-fashioned, and you'll only come out looking like a fool. Times have changed, and so have our tactics.
Here are a few things to consider doing.
Focus on you
Many are wondering why focusing on yourself helps get a man. Girls, it's the soul of getting that man. Men often like beautiful things and will want them more if they feel jealous of the possibility of another man keeping them pretty. They will want to steal you. Go to the salon every two weeks or three to get your hair done. Do mild makeup that highlights your features. Maintain your nails, and dress comfortably and accordingly. Note that I didn't specify how to dress; you need to be comfortable in your clothing to pull this off. Finally, walk with grace; I don't mean swaying your hips.
Don't be shy
Men of this century want to marry the shy but date the outspoken. It's okay to be soft-spoken, but first, be cheerful and welcoming. Create an ambiance of comfort when talking to him. During the conversation, talk about things you are confidently versed in to bring out your intellect. However, do not dwell so much on it. Give them a taste of your intelligence and plenty of foolishness. Yes, talk about mild topics. These topics are fun and will draw him to your funny side.
Laugh and smile a lot
Watch out for places where he likes hanging out. Do not be a stalker. Once or twice is enough for him to notice you. As you enter the establishment, with a few of your friends, the first thing to do is capture his attention briefly and lock eyes, then girlishly smile. That should only take a second. Then proceed to ignore him most of the time completely. As you talk with your friends, gently laugh and smile a lot. He is watching, so don't look to confirm.
Be warm
If an opportunity presents himself and he finally asks you out on a date, don't flirt uncontrollably. Focus on making small talk, touch him gently and slightly. However, a good man should be respecting, and if he demonstrates aggressive behavior, you should quit while you are still safe. Wanting a man shouldn't be a reason enough to let them disrespect your body, and as a woman, you will notice signs on the first date. Naturally, when you see red flags, your crush will diminish immediately. Once that happens, don't think twice. Find another crush.
