Long-distance relationships require more effort than short-distance
relationships. If you are in a long-distance relationship, be well aware of
what is at stake, including the possibility of your partner cheating. That is why
you need to keep your partner focused on you, and feel attended to.
I won’t ask you to buy flowers for your partner, clearly,
they can do that for themselves. If you are reading this, you are about to do
the most drastic and selfish thing ever done to keep your partner. That is
because I do not kid around. You need to be mean and in control. You need to
give gifts that keep your partner thinking about every other thing except sex.
Yes, stop getting your partner horny and bothered when you
can’t reach them quickly, because once you are done talking, they will seek relief
from somewhere else. So be mean and keep them thinking less of sex.
Write them a letter
First things first, be old. Leave millennials be and go back
to the 70’s romance. A latter is endearing and it will make them swoon over
you. It will be even more endearing when you both develop correspondence. The anticipation
for the letters will keep both of you focused on one another.
Also don’t bring what you talk about in the letters to your
daily video calls, keep it separate, like a little secret you don’t want the FBI
to find out.
Dedicate your
free time
Give them a lot of your free time. That will help you grow
closer because you share a lot and be in the know. Find online classes you can
both take and create a healthy competition. You can also find online play
online games, like Words with friends.
These activities put you in the life of your partner, and
you will be able to sense changes in their moods if they begin to sway from the
commitments. Don’t let the distraction build for long, if it does you’ll lose
the relationship. Find time during such times to visit your partner.
Small things
matter
Send your partner tiny gifts together with the letters. Items
that they’ll find funny or endearing. This reminds them that you are thinking
of them every now and then wherever you are.
A long
visit
Long-distance relationships are characterized by short
visits. If you want to impress your partner, take a week off work, or annual leave
and go be with them. You may take work with you, but only if they are okay with
it and will also be at work. If both of you take time off work, then no work.
Relationships require work, and you need to put in the work.
You cannot sit and expect everything to work out on its own, even angels have
to do their work. Nothing is easy.
