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questions for a new relationship
A common misconception about these questions; they need to
be answered in one sitting. To clearly understand your new date, for the first
date don’t ask them any questions. Unpopular opinion but yes, it works. These
questions should be answered in a span of 30 days where each day you discover
something new about one another.
On the first day, keep talking to a minimum, which means
there has to be some form of entertainment to keep the date going. Make light
conversations about what is unfolding before you, eat or drink, then go your
separate ways.
That will give both of you time to determine whether you’d
like another date or not. Give each other two days to feel the stew. You will
know if you both want another date. After exactly 48 hours, plan another date,
or not.
For every date, ask one question and explore all other
possible questions on the topic. If the topic ends quickly, don’t move to
another, find another activity to bond on, that way you can learn other things
about each other without asking questions.
1. Are you married?
Expand the topics, for example;
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Divorced?
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In a relationship?
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Are you looking for a commitment?
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What do you think of marriage?
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Do you know any married and divorced couples?
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Do you want children?
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What is your opinion on divorce?
Broaden the topic as you go.
Questions
to ask yourself before getting married.
2. Any toxic exes I should know about or are
they still in the picture?
3. What does friendship mean to you?
4. What’s the most important thing to you in
life?
5. How is your relationship with your mother?
6. How do you vision retirement?
7. How do you handle grief?
8. How do you deal with a stressful situation?
9. Do you believe in God?
10. Do you think of travelling? Where?
11. Who is closest to you from your extended
family?
12. What’s your policy on cheating?
13. If you have a day left, what would you do?
14. What inspires you?
What
motivates you to succeed?
To be safe, on the 31st day, meet and talk about
the next step which is to date or not.
